Went to a vigil last for a friend who lost her beautiful 20 year old daughter, when I hugged her she said "I've got to quit crying so my makeup stays on", I replied "Oh, Christine, it's not about the make up". It never is. When we lose someone we love it's not about the exterior, it's about the way they made you feel, it's the feelings, the presence, the love we are greiving. So today I'm going focus on the feeling, the presence and the love of those I am surrounded by. In honor of a beautiful young lady taken too soon, Molly Claire.